At the airport

This is when we were dropping off Grandmom and Grandad at the airport. Cute shot of mommy and Josh. Notice his wings... the people at the Chas airport always loved seeing the boys come to the counters to check in and always gave them wings... don't ask how many pairs of wings I've tossed out once the sticky wore off...

Sam and his wings! They have great windows with rockers set up (I LOVE the Chas airport!! Miss it!) and the boys would run around and look out at the planes.
Tiger brothers!

Teeny Tiny Tiger

Just a few pics of Tim when he was teensy. He had lots of Tiger clothes (still does!) and this was one my mom bought even before we knew he was a boy Tiger!

Awwww! Snuggly sleepy little Tiger! He fell asleep on my lap.
Tim's Aunt Missy made this adorable gown for him! I loved that thing so much!
This was taken in the hospital... this is his Tiger we bought him at the zoo in Montgomery, AL when we were there for SOS. And the outfit is one we got with Josh.
Love looking back at all these sweet newborn pix!

Pumpkin Patch 2010

So a few days after Tim was born we went to the Pumpkin Patch at Boone Hall Plantation in Mt. Pleasant. My parents were still with us, so they got to come, too! We got a few pix, though AJ and I were super stylish wearing our sunglasses for our family picture here... oops! I think Tim was maybe 5 or 6 days old(??).

Josh's pumpkin
Sam had fun walking around looking at the pumpkins, too!

WHAT??? A NEW Post??

So... it's a new year, and it seems like maybe a good time to try to start blogging again. I kept meaning to get caught up from the last post, but being so busy with three boys and some other stuff (AJ deploying, finding out we were moving, moving cross-country, etc.) I just haven't gotten to it. I've been ignoring it. But now that we're more or less settled, I feel like maybe I can actually get back into the habit. I hate that Tim's life up till now is so not documented on here, and that there's a huge gap with the other boys. Maybe I'll do a post with a mini-catch up??

Anyway, trite as it may be, I'd like to start off the year with my "resolutions." I hate that word, and the thoughts it brings up (I'm going to lose X lbs, etc). However, my resolutions are a little different. And hopefully I'll keep them.

1) Keep growing in my relationship with Christ and my heavenly Father. To do this, I want to keep up with my reading through the Bible (currently in 1 Samuel). I also want to find our "home" church here and get plugged in with a community group and hopefully a good preschool group for the boys.

2) Grow my relationship with my husband. It's so easy to just "coast" in marriage, and then one day you realize how long it's been since you really communicated with your husband. Or at least it seems that way in my life. I really want to start having regular(ish) date nights where we go somewhere we can really talk, not just go to a movie or something. We need to put in some serious work with all the stressors we have day to day on us and our relationship.

3) Spend some serious play/teaching time with all three boys, but Josh in particular. I am so lazy in this area! I keep wanting to get set up to do some little mini-lessons with him to get him ready for K next year, but still haven't done it! Part of it is that I always seem to be so busy with just caring for the boys and AJ and keeping up with house work. Part of it is just me being lazy. I want to make a little spot for him to be able to work at. Still trying to figure out where this will be. I might get a little table and put in his room. Or maybe in the guest room. I don't know. Anyone with ideas on what to do or how to get started or what to start with (another problem I have had getting this going), please please email or comment on this or FB me!! I may or may not use your suggestions, but I'd love to hear them!

So... that's about it. I would like to lose the 15 lbs. I put on during the move, and we'll be joining the YMCA here in order to help the kids use some energy, and me get some work out time in. We're all very excited about this, but it's not a vow I'm making or anything. It would be nice, though...

What are YOUR New Year's resolutions??

While I was in labor...

OK, these first couple are actually from the day or two before Tim was born, when my parents got here. They were amazing and changed their airline tickets to Monday instead of Wednesday, so they could be here to help with the kids for us!! Thanks, again, Mom and Dad!!

Josh was pretty enamored of Granddad's hat...

Silly boys going down the stairs in the morning. Sam goes down on his belly mostly, so Josh thinks it's hilarious for him to do the same.
Sam loves the stairs. A LOT. And beach balls. And the tail on his outfit makes this a super cute picture!!
Classic Josh "look". He learned from a pro. (Me, in case you didn't pick that up.)
Rough housing with Daddy the night before their brother was born. They love playing with Daddy!!
While AJ and I were at the hospital, Mom and Dad took the boys to Gahagan Park (aka The Faraway Park). They played and had a picnic and got out lots of energy and took really good naps when they got home. They also happened to meet up with some friends of ours from Rolly Pollies and school and got to hang out a bit with them. Not that Josh needs to know people to talk to them, as is evident in a couple of these pics. He could talk to anyone, and does!!

Josh swinging on the tire swing.
Sam in the red swing. This is a super cool swing, and it's never open when we're there, so I know he was excited to be able to swing in it!
Metal pipes and brass balls on strikers make a GREAT toy. They love to make noise!!
Josh talking to people. No idea what he was telling them about... probably about his baby Tiger being born!! He was super excited about that.
I love my Sam's expressions!!
Peek-a-boo!!
times 2!!
Playing soccer.
Sam really loves balls. A lot.
Another kid. Josh really loves to talk... No idea where he got that trait from...
Cheese!
Mom and Dad said that Sam would pull himself up on these monkey bars to stand on Mom's shoulders. You can see this in the pic below. Silly monkey!
Having the time of his life!

Love that smile!!

A Tiger is born!

WARNING: This may be TMI for some of you. I'm describing the birth of my child, so there is some info on here you may not care to read. Just fair warning.

So on Wednesday, October 13, AJ and I woke up VERY early to go to the hospital for me to be induced. I was progressing on my own, but the contractions I was having wouldn't stay regular, and we were on a tight schedule with AJ scheduled to leave on a trip the end of October and my parents only in town for a week. So at 39 weeks and 4 days, that's where we were. Trident Medical Center in Charleston. At 0600.

This is right after we got all registered and signed in downstairs. I forgot to get a last preggo shot when I got induced with Sam, so I wanted to be sure to get one this time! So this is me at 39 wks. 4 days.

OK, before we get to the "good" pics (aka, the ones with the baby!) I'll tell you how the day went.

Got all changed and all, the nurses came in (still the night shift, so they didn't do too much, other than explain when the new shift would be in and what would happen, in general terms.

So about 0700 the new shift came in, introduced themselves, and got things started... meaning paperwork. And needles. The first nurse was very sweet, but not incredible at putting needles in me. She tried a vein on my left forearm first... couldn't get any blood out. Tried a big old vein on my left hand, and ended up blowing it out... in a major way. It's still bruised. NOT cool. And apparently they have a two try limit, so the other nurse came in and put it in my right wrist, which wasn't what I'd call fun, or comfortable, but at least she got it first try! They took a little blood, and then left me hooked up to the IV fluids to get ready for the pitocin when the dr. got there and could check me and get things started. About 0830 they got permission from the Dr. to check me themselves, and I was 3-4 cm. dilated and about 70% effaced. So they started the pit drip. The contractions started almost right away, but of course were very small and not painful, barely noticeable. After a few "bumps" up, they got a little more regular and intense. Several bathroom breaks (LOTS of fluids going in me!) and some boredom and an hour or two, Dr. Molly finally made an appearance. She came in and talked to me a little, and said she'd check me and if Tim was in a "good position" she'd break my water. So she did. It wasn't like with Sam where the contractions got REALLY bad REALLY fast after that... but they did start ramping up a bit... and I started contemplating epidural or no epidural. After much deliberation, I finally decided to try it again. The one I got with Sam didn't really help much, and stopped working at all after an hour or so. NOT cool, so I was unsure whether it was worth it. But since this could possibly be my last pregnancy/labor, I thought it was worth another try.

So I let them know, and they gave me another whole bag of fluids really fast to get ready for the epidural. By this time the contractions were getting really painful, and it seemed like it took forever for the anesthesiologist to get there. Dr. Molly came in and checked me right before the nice man with the drugs got there, and I was 5-6 cm. and 80% effaced.

The anesthesiologist did the epidural with me lying down on my side... MUCH bigger fan of this way than the sitting on the edge of the bed way. Not extremely pleasant process, but once those drugs started working, it was SOO much better that it didn't matter too much. But after enjoying the effects for only about 3 or 4 contractions, I started feeling a LOT of pressure. Thinking it was the full bladder, the nurse quickly put in the catheter and drained it. It didn't help much. So she checked me... I was 9 cm and completely effaced! In about 20 min!! And the pressure was b/c he had moved down to +2 station, which basically meant he was about ready for me to push!

So they paged Dr. Molly... but she was stuck somewhere, and meanwhile, the pressure and pushing urge were almost unbearable. It was BAD! Even with the epidural taking the contraction pain mostly away, it was horrible!! FINALLY, as I started to think I'd have to just start pushing without her, Dr. Molly showed up! I pushed for I think 2 or 3 contractions, and got his head out, and then the doctor told me to stop. STOP??? Are you KIDDING?? I later found out that he had the cord wrapped around his neck and when I pushed, it was pulling it tighter so that she couldn't get it off. EEK!! Not sure if that knowledge would have been better or worse to know at that point. But she pulled it off just fine, and got him all out w/ the next push, and that was that! But OW!!!! I forgot how much it hurts... and I was all shaky from the epidural drugs and from pushing and from NOT pushing, and I was FREEZING! But I had my baby! This was the first time I'd been able to see my baby right after he was born, instead of after they cleaned him up... it was kind of gross, but cool at the same time. With the first two there was meconium in my water, so they had to grab them and take them to get cleaned up right away. It was nice to be able to see him right away.

There he is, seconds after being born! He didn't pink up and cry right away, but once he did start crying, he was REALLY pink!
Here he is getting cleaned up by the nurses while I was being stitched up.
All clean... well, more or less. Oh, and I got to see AJ cut the cord for the first time, too! I mean, he's cut it all three times, but I've never been able to see it b/c they took the baby away from where I was. So that was pretty cool, too!
Isn't he the cutest??
He weighed 7 lbs. 13 oz. and was 20 1/4 inches long. Not bad!
Then they gave him back to me to try to get him to nurse... he wouldn't latch on right away, and was pretty upset about it. He'd scream and scream in between tries! He also peed all over me...
Not a happy camper... They eventually took him and bathed him, and when they brought him back about 5 min. later he latched on right away and nursed for a LONG time!
All wrapped up and happy. He really loves being wrapped and snuggled!!

So welcome, Little Timothy Joel "Tiger" Lewton!! Mommy, Daddy, Josh, and Sam love you so much (even if Sam doesn't know it yet...)!! And you've got a lot of other family and friends who love you, too!!

We pray that you'll grow up to be a Godly man, who loves and lives Christ in his life for all to see, and be a loving happy strong courageous man! We love you, little Tiger!

39 Week (and LAST) check up!

So I had my 38 wk. 6 day appt. this morning. It didn't take nearly as long to see the midwife, thank goodness, and she brought up induction before I did! YAY!! I was worried she wouldn't want me to, or wouldn't be able to schedule it or something. But it's all set up for Wed. morning, show up at 0600 (eek!), with a possibility of it happening on Tuesday morning. But with AJ's schedule, we may not even call and try for Tues. if he's not here before then.

When she checked me I was still at about 2 cm, 60% effaced, more anterior, and he was still about -1 station. I hadn't had hardly any contractions this past week at all, but this afternoon I had them for a good 4 hrs. or so, and then after that sporadically, so we'll see what happens the next couple of days.

His grandparents just got back in the country from their trip to Europe, so maybe he was just waiting for that... or for us to make a deadline for him! Maybe he's a procrastinator like his mommy!

At any rate, he's coming SOON one way or another! I still think 10-10-10 is a super cool birthday, and much better than the 13th, though it's not a big deal.

I can't wait to meet my little Tiger!!